A woman left the internet in shock after revealing her boyfriend left wet skid marks on her sheets when they slept.
The 24-year-old took to Reddit last Wednesday to ask her for advice on how she can “gently explain” to her boyfriend of 29 years for a few months “that he does not wipe properly” after accidentally touching one of the spots he has left on his side the bed.
“In the last couple of weeks I’ve noticed a very tricky issue that I know needs to be addressed, but I don’t even know how I would want someone to tell me this is happening, so I don’t care. not sure how to approach it with him, ”she explained in her message.
Yikes: 24-year-old woman asked Reddit how she could “gently explain” to her boyfriend “that he doesn’t wipe himself properly” after repeatedly finding skid marks on her sheets (stock image)
Say what? Many people were confused as to how he was getting skid marks on his sheets
Mystery: Woman explained that her boyfriend sleeps naked and the spots are always on his side of the bed when he sleeps
“To sum up: it leaves skid marks in my bed when we are together. Sometimes they’re not… dry, ”she added. “I find them after he leaves and because I have light sheets it’s pretty obvious.”
The woman said when this first happened she was “incredibly embarrassed” and assumed it was she who had done it, although it seemed unlikely.
“I shower twice a day and take care of my areas! She noted.
She admitted that this had happened several times in their relationship, but she wasn’t ready to say anything until now.
“Today was the last straw because I accidentally touched it and it was wet and that was exactly where HE was lying and it took all the self-control not to s ‘suffocate because he was getting ready to leave,’ she said. “I really need to talk to him about it and I don’t want him to feel bad.”
I’m just saying: people had lots of thoughts, but most of them agreed that a 29 year old man should be able to wipe himself properly without being told
The woman explained that her boyfriend didn’t wear anything to sleep, not even boxers, and that she was fed up with having to “aim” at his sheets every time he was in bed.
“Frankly, it’s also just disgusting,” she added. “I hate to say it, but it’s true, he’s a grown man and I can’t believe it’s my job to explain this to him.” He always mentions how much he loves baby wipes in the bathroom for this purpose, but … my bed says otherwise.
“He’s diligent about every other aspect of grooming that I’ve noticed, so it’s kinda weird going on. I love it to death but I’m sick of cleaning my sheets and praying that the stains will go away. How can I talk to him about it without making him feel bad? she asked at the end of her message.
People had lots of thoughts, but most agreed that a 29-year-old should be able to wipe himself properly without being told.
“He should know how to wipe his ass at 29. No sweetness. He needs tough love, ”one person wrote.
“Ask your boyfriend, ‘Boyfriend, how do you know you’re done wiping yourself? And gauge his response. If the answer is, “I wipe until there is no more brown on the toilet paper,” he has a problem with defecation during coitus, “someone else commented. “If he starts to sweat, calm down, say ‘uh … uhh …’ you know you took him by the brown hand.
Others were just confused as to how he had skid marks on his sheets.
Call the doctor: Some people in the medical field feared this was a sign of a physical illness, not a hygiene issue.
“Can someone explain how this happens? Does he spread his cheeks and press down on the bed? a Reddit user asked. “Does he take some really horrible poop coming out of his ass **?” Or is he sharing in bed? I can’t imagine what this guy’s underwear and pants look like.
– If I knew, I would explain it. I know this is crap, ”the woman replied. “I don’t know how it’s going there, and it’s absolutely coming from him because it’s only on his side of the bed and it ONLY happens when he’s there.” My sheets are admittedly a little loose on my bed, maybe there is a problem where they are piling up? “
A few people working in the medical field feared that this was a sign of a physical illness and not of a hygiene problem.
A nurse pointed out that if the skid mark is wet, it is still fresh.
“Either he constantly has very loose stools, like leaky diarrhea, or he has a sphincter problem. This means that there is a problem with the muscles in his anus, ”the person explained, adding,“ I strongly suggest that he see a doctor.
“It may not just be a question of wiping up,” someone else agreed. “If he’s suffering from IBS or other bowel problems, he might very well clean himself very well after using the bathroom, but later get dirty (and your sheets) with leaks or wet farts.”
The woman then added an edit to her post, sharing that she planned to speak in person with her boyfriend that Friday.
After reading all the reviews she now thinks it may be a health issue as some have suggested. She also pointed out that her boyfriend did not smell of feces.
“I’m telling you, I have no warning that this is going to happen!” ” she said. “He just faintly smells of sweat depending on the time of day. Am I going to dig in her asshole for crumbs? No, I don’t intend to. I don’t actively see opportunities to show off her asshole, unfortunately.